How do you know when you’ve found “the one”? The right partner for you now and for the future, who shares your values, allows you to grow while providing stability, complements your strengths and weaknesses, and who will be there for you in good times and bad. Is it possible to get the must-haves along with the nice-to-haves (and let’s not forget about avoiding the deal breakers)? It may seem like an unrealistic hope, but you can have it all.